I
love FB, I always have. For me, it is a vital part of "Go ye into all
the world..." I'm able to preach and teach at the drop of a hat and be
the one that drops it. I'm able to request prayer and immediately have a
million people praying. I'm able to scan my newsfeed in order to make
my prayer list fuller. I am often engaged in simultaneous conversations
with half a dozen frustrated pastors from all over the country, sharing
my opinion and experiences with them. I'm able to communicate with
Pastor Heavens Kanduna about our churches in Malawi and Mozambique. I'm
able to see what God is doing in other churches. I love that.
When I travel, I use it as a means of accountability, checking in at
every state line. It allows my bride to know how close or far away her
man is from home. It enables the saints of Revival Tabernacle to know
when pastor will be back. LOL! I love that.
It gives me a chance
to learn a little more about the people I love. It also gives me an
opportunity to share my family and our life experiences with them, too.
It helps me see life from another perspective. I get to visit places
like Italy, India, Uganda, Spain, Nicaragua, etc through my friends. I
love that.
I know it's weird, but I kind of like seeing brothers
brag on their wives and children and proudly posting pictures of date
nights and family outings. It gives me hope for America. I love that.
I like knowing when you kill a big buck or hook a 4 lb bass. I rejoice
when you get a new truck or house. I like funny memes with witty sayings
about things like us manly bearded men being superior to our smooth
faced, effeminate peers. LOL. I like how you can make any picture or
statement non-offensive by adding an LOL after it. You see how that
works? LOL. I really love that.
I love Facebook, but not today
or the past couple months; not since the election has gotten really
nasty. I find myself not wanting to look at my newsfeed anymore. I know.
I know. I need to toughen up. But actually ... I'm about as tough and
thick skinned as can be. I can "not" care what you think in about
.000000001 seconds flat (if I want to), but I typically don't want to. I
actually like caring and feeling and do so deeply. The truth is very
few things bother me and there's only a couple handfuls of people who's
opinion of me really really really matters. The thing I love about FB is
now the thing I hate about it. Oh, the irony. I'm learning too much
about the inner workings of people's minds and hearts. It has made me
want to withdraw from the Church world again, hiding out in my little
corner of the Kingdom, doing my own thing, but I've already done that in
times past and I found that to be a lonely place.
God is teaching me some very important things right now. And what's strange is He is using my little sister
to illustrate these truths. She's beautiful, strong, funny, smart and
make-blood-shoot-out-of-my-eyes liberal. She and I approach religion
very differently which, to be transparent, sometimes hurts my heart. But
... I couldn't love and respect a person more than I love and respect
her. She's the real deal. I overlook what I consider to be her flaws
and, thankfully, she does the same for me. I love my sister's Facebook
posts. Nearly everyday I get to hear about the hilarious antics of my
amazing nieces. I get to walk along with her, struggle with her, fight
with her. Sometimes she sumbits make-blood-shoot-out-of-my-eyes liberal
comments that I roll my eyes and shake my head at. Sometimes she does
the same thing at mine. Sometimes, when I make a really far
right-winged, blazing, holier than thou comment, I intentionally remove
her name from the recipients list. I don't want blood shooting out of
her eyes when she's already having a bad day. My point is I'm invested
in loving my sister. She's my heartbeat. We disagree on very important
issues, but those issues are still secondary to our love, appreciation
and respect we have for each other. We are invested in loving each other
despite our individual flaws.
HERE'S MY LESSON: I think SOME of
my friends' political statements are stupid, insensitive and, quite
frankly, abusive. I've been disappointed at some of the things I've seen
and heard. I get a little angry when my desire to maintain a pure
conscience toward God and men is downplayed and mocked. I've wanted to
put a rear naked choke on some of those that tell me they're tired of
Christians fighting and calling each other names over this election, yet
turn around and fight and call people names over the election. I weary
with brothers whom I would never openly attack thinking that any
political post I make is about them. 85% of the time I haven't had a
chance to read what they've said. Folks are crazy right now. For reals!
You can post John 3:16 and someone will say something about voting for
Trumplestiltskin or Hillbilly Clinton. LOL. Yowsers.
But I love
them. I confident them. I respect them. The people I'm referring to are
great men/women of God. They love the Lord. And if I think what they're
saying is stupid, they probably think what I'm saying is stupid, too.
And what else should I expect?
My closest friends are strong, masculine, annointed, extremely flawed,
alpha-male, female chauvinists. ---> LOL.They thunder when they
speak. They speak and write passionately. I love their zeal even when I
can't stand the subject matter that zeal is annihilating. My closest
friends aren't "yes" men.
We all have character flaws. We all need Jesus. We need each other.
Samson was tied up by his own brothers and delivered to the
Philistines. He broke free from the ropes that held him. He still didn't
turn on his brothers; there were too many Philistines to kill. I've
been freed from many of the ropes (traditions, attitudes, etc) that my
Christian brothers and sisters have tied me up with in the past.
BUT I'VE GOT REAL ENEMIES TO FIGHT!
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